The Advantages of Being 'just Good Friends'
Sometimes friendships turn into romantic relationships, and bonding as pals before becoming a couple can come with many perks. INSIDER spoke to relationship expert and advice columnist April Masini to find out some of the best things about being friends before dating someone. In fact, some of the best relationships often start out as friendships. “The purity of an initial friendship allows you to see someone's character before it's blurred by sexual As for the whole friends with benefits conundrum? Pursuing a friendship with a guy you're romantically interested in may be tough, and you may want to skip it altogether. Being friends with him.
Share Relationships are complicated in and of themselves, but when it comes to turning a friendship into a romance, the transition can be especially tricky. With your feelings, and of course, a friendship at stake, dating a friend you've known for years can be the best — and most terrifying — thing ever. But while the future may be uncertain, experts say that there is a way to cross the line cautiously so as not to catch your crush off-guard and, at the very least, preserve your friendship if the attraction isn't mutual.
Ahead, you'll hear from therapists who dish on the challenges and triumphs that can come with dating a friend, as well as one woman who tried it, herself spoiler: It didn't work out in the long run. If you've been thinking about sharing your "more-than-friends" feelings with someone you care about, read on to determine whether it's worth the risk. You may get lucky and benefit of being friends before dating out that your friend reciprocates your romantic feelings; but it's just as likely that he or she isn't interested in anything beyond friendship.
But eventually and despite their close friendshipshe realized that the key ingredient that bridges the gap between platonic and romantic affection — attraction — was missing. But the other part of me would never wants to lose the most valuable friendship I've ever had.
After all, don't happy couples say their significant others are also their best friends? You already know each other as friends; now it's time to get to know each other as lovers.